Ben is awesome. I have been slightly hormonally edgy and he just walks by in a somewhat "du-du-du, du-du-du" fashion, getting stuff ready for his early morning ride. It's nice to know that he doesn't get swayed too much by my small roller coasters. It's also refreshing that he is not set on "fixing" my mood.
Meanwhile, he is responding to someone's email, "In (also +1 for pole dancing lessons)." Not sure if he wants to pole dance or if he wants me to pole dance. It is 98% a joke and purposefully ambiguous. He does have a sense of humor.